Well, you have many things in your post back and forth. Let me try to give you my thoughts.
You said.....a while back your were overweight (25 yrs. ago) but your lowest is high 120’s to 130 bi that is to skinny for you. When you met your gf you were 170 lbs. but now you are 175 lbs. your encourages you to eat and likes rubbing your belly after it is full. She has said she doesn’t like skinny boyfriends but complained that her ex-husband was fat.
First off......do you consider yourself fatter now at 175 lbs.? Would you mind being bigger?
You like your gf fatter......correct? Did you encourage her to gain after she started to in your relationship or at least let her know you like the weight she has gained and told her?
Without knowing this answers I still would say ......she probably does want you to gain and get a bigger belly based on her rubbing it when you are full. Also, I have noticed with my wife similar things....not her saying it but enjoyed the bigger gut I grew as well as her feeding me and us much bigger portions all the time after I gained a bunch of weight. Partly, I think she was feeding me so much because I just kept eating it and need more servings to get full but also because I believe she felt like she was the one fattening her husband up. At the same time she had already gained a decent mount of weight in which she would normally be trying to lose the weight she had gained in the past when I was still relatively thinner before but now she didn’t mind about her continuing to gain.....in fact it was almost like we became eating buddies and she stuffed like day and night when we were together. As I started looking like I was 9 months pregnant she started looking like she was right there with me. During this time she was more aroused than ever with me and initiated sex all the time. She even became much more secure with her own figure even though she was the heaviest she had ever been. In the past she would have been 30+ lbs. lighter and complained how fat she was and didn’t want to have sex because she was disgusted by herself. I guess the difference was that I had an even bigger gut than her and she was relaxed and comfortable for that reason.
So, I am sure your gf does want to feel a bigger belly on you but part of the reason is it will make her feel more comfortable being heavier and gaining even more. If all goes well which I actually loved In our situation ......you both may be a very happy couple sporting some over sized fits together.
You said.....a while back your were overweight (25 yrs. ago) but your lowest is high 120’s to 130 bi that is to skinny for you. When you met your gf you were 170 lbs. but now you are 175 lbs. your encourages you to eat and likes rubbing your belly after it is full. She has said she doesn’t like skinny boyfriends but complained that her ex-husband was fat.
First off......do you consider yourself fatter now at 175 lbs.? Would you mind being bigger?
You like your gf fatter......correct? Did you encourage her to gain after she started to in your relationship or at least let her know you like the weight she has gained and told her?
Without knowing this answers I still would say ......she probably does want you to gain and get a bigger belly based on her rubbing it when you are full. Also, I have noticed with my wife similar things....not her saying it but enjoyed the bigger gut I grew as well as her feeding me and us much bigger portions all the time after I gained a bunch of weight. Partly, I think she was feeding me so much because I just kept eating it and need more servings to get full but also because I believe she felt like she was the one fattening her husband up. At the same time she had already gained a decent mount of weight in which she would normally be trying to lose the weight she had gained in the past when I was still relatively thinner before but now she didn’t mind about her continuing to gain.....in fact it was almost like we became eating buddies and she stuffed like day and night when we were together. As I started looking like I was 9 months pregnant she started looking like she was right there with me. During this time she was more aroused than ever with me and initiated sex all the time. She even became much more secure with her own figure even though she was the heaviest she had ever been. In the past she would have been 30+ lbs. lighter and complained how fat she was and didn’t want to have sex because she was disgusted by herself. I guess the difference was that I had an even bigger gut than her and she was relaxed and comfortable for that reason.
So, I am sure your gf does want to feel a bigger belly on you but part of the reason is it will make her feel more comfortable being heavier and gaining even more. If all goes well which I actually loved In our situation ......you both may be a very happy couple sporting some over sized fits together.
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